Be kind or be gone
Community rules
Last updated 10 October 2026
Three rules. Stay a mystery. Be kind or be gone. Leave anytime.
1. Stay a mystery
- Don't share or ask for names, phone numbers, socials, addresses or workplaces.
- Don't try to find out who someone is.
2. Be kind or be gone
- No hate, harassment, threats or bullying.
- No sexual talk, requests or content.
- No selling, spam, scams or recruiting.
- No encouraging self-harm or violence.
- Adults only. If someone sounds under 18, report them.
3. Leave anytime
You never owe anyone a conversation. End the call whenever you want. Tap the flag to report and block in one go.
What happens when someone breaks the rules
Reports are reviewed. Accounts reported by several different people are paused automatically. Serious or repeated breaks lead to a permanent ban.
If a call gets heavy
ODDs is not a crisis service. If you or the person you're talking to might be in danger, contact local emergency services. In Singapore: Samaritans of Singapore, 1767, any time. Emergency: 995.